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Post by Regret on Dec 26, 2006 22:46:53 GMT -5
I'm not going to get into details, but I'm going through a really hard time right now.. life is not treating me very well, and I'm tired of being angry every single night and coming home crying after work every single day. Please, could I get some good vibes and prayers? I could certainly use someone in my corner right about now.
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Post by meddywv on Dec 26, 2006 22:51:32 GMT -5
Awww....Kelley, hang in there....sending prayers and good vibes from WV! We are all here for ya!
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Post by MaryKansas on Dec 26, 2006 23:15:57 GMT -5
*BIG HUGS* to you Kelly...and lots of thoughts and prayers being sent out to you.
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Post by redmustangwoman1 on Dec 26, 2006 23:23:30 GMT -5
Sending you prayers and BIG BIG HUGS to you Kelly...
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Post by wendi (calif) on Dec 26, 2006 23:57:47 GMT -5
Hang in there Kelley...we're all here for you..Life sure does Suck at times..we can all vouch for that. (((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))) and know your never alone!
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leonanc
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Post by leonanc on Dec 27, 2006 0:00:28 GMT -5
Kelly I don't know you yet but my heart is with you and so are my prayers. I know what you mean about life, it has not been to fair at this end either. Just remember like I do that some place some where some one has it a lot worse than you do. And life can either kick your can, or you say today is a new day, and something about this day is going to be better than yesterday. If I am haveing a bad day, I try to make sure I do at least one thing the next day, that will make this day just a little better than the day before. Don't matter how small that something is. And find a release, weather it be soaking in the tub, walking, jogging, getting on here and just letting it all out. We are all friends on here, and if you need to vent well, bring it on! I know I would listen! Hugs to you, and this is all just an opinion! Not telling you what to do, I would never do that.
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Post by celeste on Dec 27, 2006 2:00:15 GMT -5
Everyone has their own best way for coping with things... I can tell you that several months ago my daughter had pretty much hit bottom with her job.. She has a degree in Engineering and had landed a REALLY GOOD JOB paying big bucks right out of school...landed right smack in the middle of Good Ole Boy Land... being token female..she stood it as long as she could and quit... took a job teaching 1st grade and middleschoolers computer tech..salary 1/3 as much.... Well I just about choked!! But she is now sleeping peacefully, eating way too much.. and VERY happy in her job.. she sat down and figured up all the stuff they could do without and her budget on the bare minimum and drew the line....and is well on her way to peace of mind... I on the other hand.. after 32 years of marrige I've discovered that Hubby is spending way too much time on the Net surfing stuff he doesn't need to see..His business went down the tube I think because of this... I had to go out and get a job to pay the bills..I spent way too many nights lying awake being angry and hurt, bla , bla, bla..I have a bad family history of depressive illness so I decided to get some professional counseling...I chose a female councellor and told her up front that money was an issue and I didn't have time or money to spare.. long story short I've had 5 visits with her... she's done nothing but ask me provacative questions that REALLY MADE ME THINK!! Its really made me examine just what I want from life and what my expectations are.. and what I'm willing to settle for..One of the most interesting things she had me face was that one of my biggest fears was being left alone with no support..(I married young) then she pointed out that I'm supporting myself now... along with supporting another person!! I don't know if either of these situations come close to what you ar dealing with but if it helps I'm so glad.. and if not and you just need to vent PM me.. I'll listen!!..I also have the co-worker from hell and I'm learning how to deal with her too... So send me a PM and we'll hash it out!!
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imromeo
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Post by imromeo on Dec 27, 2006 19:08:33 GMT -5
prayers headed your way and god bless you in every need.
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Nettie
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Post by Nettie on Dec 28, 2006 8:45:16 GMT -5
Prayers and HUGS to you...
Take care of you first....
NEttie
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Linda
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Post by Linda on Dec 30, 2006 18:40:20 GMT -5
Kelly, I hope your feeling better now. If you ever wanted to feel really bad, I could tell you MY story, but I won't bore you with that. If you ever need to vent or just chat you can always PM me. I could say to you " I've been there~ done that" and thats the Gods truth Kelly. Life does go on tho. At the time is sure doesn't feel like it will, but it does get better, if you want it to. It's something we or you, have to work on. Whenever one door closes, another one always open up for us, and it's sooo much better than the last one was. PM me anytime you feel like talking. God Bless You~~~
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Post by Regret on Dec 31, 2006 3:31:09 GMT -5
I went to see my beautiful horse today and he made me feel so amazing. Horses are incredible creatures, aren't they? The outside of a horse can truly heal the inside of a (wo)man.
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momofjandj
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Post by momofjandj on Dec 31, 2006 3:56:39 GMT -5
Hugs and prayers being sent your way Kelly that you are feeling better soon.
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Linda
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Post by Linda on Dec 31, 2006 10:50:03 GMT -5
I went to see my beautiful horse today and he made me feel so amazing. Horses are incredible creatures, aren't they? The outside of a horse can truly heal the inside of a (wo)man. Boy they sure can. It gives me such a warm feeling when mine see me and I hear little whinnies. They listen to you when you have something to get off your chest, and look at you with those big eyes and seem to know what your saying. They are such good therapy for so many people, nursing homes, get training in prisons, the handicapped children, and last but not least, us. I sure hope your feeling better, keep your chin up, just go forward, and act like you own the world. Positive thinking always does wonders for the heart and soul. You take care.
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Post by carolann on Dec 31, 2006 16:22:59 GMT -5
Huggs and prayers from Long Island....may you find inner peace and serenity.
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tinypony
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Post by tinypony on Dec 31, 2006 18:17:21 GMT -5
horses are such amazing animals....... my mollie is not one for affection and "snuggling" -- she would much rather ignore me and munch on her hat :-) but on those days where nothing is going right, the second i step out of the car she just KNOWS that i need her and walks right over to the gate and just presses her face against mine and will stay there as long as it takes for me to tell her the latest news (no matter how big her hay pile is)
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